Kink as Healing: When It Helps and When It's Harmful
Kink can be healing when it’s intentional—helping you reclaim control, rewrite old stories, and build trust. But if it feels compulsive, blurs boundaries, or leaves you feeling worse, it may be reenacting trauma. With curiosity, consent, and care, kink can support both pleasure and growth.
Torn Between Chaos and Control: When OCD and ADHD Coexist
OCD and ADHD are often misunderstood as total opposites—one driven by over-control, the other by impulsivity. But for those who live with both, the experience can feel like a constant tug-of-war between chaos and control. In this post, Dr. Jami Kerr explores how these two conditions overlap, why OCD can become a coping tool for ADHD, and how therapy can help untangle the complexity with compassion and clarity.